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Hot take being extremely insecure is the same thing as being self obsessed
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Anonymous 1d

Agreed its why being very insecure is considered under the egocentric umbrella and why therapists will sometimes call people with anxiety egocentric. People get jumpy at that word because they think ego always means stuck up, but thats not even how it was initially used in psychology.

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Anonymous 1d

I get what u mean It’s very self centered to think everyone has a strong opinion on you, especially when most of these kinds of people are kinda unremarkable

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Anonymous 1d

Explain this to me like I’m 4 years old please

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

self obsessed people care a lot about their looks and think everyone cares about everything they do extremely insecure people care a lot about their look and think everyone cares about everything they do

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Being insecure is normal but to the point you think everyone is constantly thinking about you 24/7 is ridiculous and is self obsessed

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

That’s actually so interesting I’ve never heard about this! Thanks for teaching me smth new :)

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