Healthy relationship for 6+ years, probably his biggest flaws that I think are an issue would be he has a very hard time admitting heās wrong (I can count on one hand how many times heās straight up admitted it) usually he just tries to change the subject or moves on a different way. He also has this weird inability to fold laundry. Not do laundry, he does it, but his drawers are literally chaos and it drives me insane because he never finds anything and then that leads to his weird bad habit of
My bf and I are going on 3 years. Heās a really good guy, just has a hard time identifying emotions and verbalizing them. We still get along great, heās very sweet and provides words of affirmation without me asking. Thereās chores that we argue over but he still does them. He doesnāt complain a lot or get angry like ever. Thereās so many people out there you really canāt get bogged down in the minor things. I was very very picky and he was the first guy I could see a future w/h after many dates
iām in the healthiest relationship iāve ever been in, but my man is private with his life. maybe itās just me bc i tell him every detail of every thing that happens to me. he also doesnāt open up about his emotions a lot. when we first started talking i was unsure if wanted to pursue a relationship bc of him being ātoo nonchalantā but since then heās opened up a lot more. he just doesnāt express his feelings when heās sad or mad a lot.
Imma be real: thereās no one whoās ānormalā overall. Like the guy im complaining about is quite literally the most normal average guy ever. Everyone has their quirks though or ābad habitsā and itās just about like learning and accepting them, or compromising or changing them for ur partner. Thereās a lot of evolving that happened for my bf and I to get to where we are but to be honest I wouldnāt change it for the world bc heās my person
Yeah relationships are a lot of work to be honest. And it depends on how they make you feel. For me, it was always worth it with my bf because he was the only bf I ever had that I felt like I was āhomeā with when I was with him. I donāt know it was just different. But then Iāll be honest the bf I was with before him I thought I loved a lot too but it was I donāt know like a different coming home feeling this time around