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potentially hot take: grooming can happen at any age. while its more likely to happen when someone is <18 simply due to the fact that ur going to be naïve & inexperienced, if u make it to adulthood & u stay sheltered, u can still be groomed
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Anonymous 14w

Definitely. Especially when things like money or power comes into play.

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Anonymous 14w

True. Now that I think my 21 yr old ex gf was grooming me.

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Anonymous 14w

Yes. Grooming is when you basically manipulate an already-vulnerable someone into acting/feeling a certain way to gain something from them (basically gaining their trust to later manipulate them). You can groom someone older than you, the same age, or younger. Most people just think about it as sexual predation on a minor but one could also groom an elderly person for money (or sex)

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Anonymous 14w

So true, a 22 year old girl from my church just married a 35 year old weirdo and is already pregnant with his kid. She didn’t go to college, had no career or real life experience, she just liked that he was providing for her and now she’s stuck

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

She might want that life?

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