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My husband’s childhood/teenagehood friend never congratulated us on our wedding or any anniversary since then. She used to “joke” that if they didn’t work out with anyone else, they would get married, and used to call herself “second wifey”. I hate her.
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Anonymous 19h

She a generational hater

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Anonymous 19h

Well she a weirdo live your best life

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Anonymous 16h

God that’s sad and embarrassing for her. I usually hear men being the clingers on but this is equally bad. Sounds like you all handled it well. He cut ties with her and that’s that. Sucks for her lol 🖕

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Anonymous 19h

Is your husband still her friend?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

We’ve been married 3 years and we’re all in our early 30s

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Oh that makes it even worse

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

Right lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19h

Kind of? They’re friends on social media and sometimes share memes, but the last time he saw her was 4 years ago when I first met her at a party he threw (which was the only time I saw her too). She had a baby from a bum almost 2 years ago and invited my husband to the baby shower - not me, mind you. But he didn’t go; we went on a trip instead, and he said he wouldn’t have gone anyway if I hadn’t been personally invited. So he’s good at setting boundaries, she just chooses to not acknowledge me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

Yep lmfao she was invited to our wedding and didn’t even show up. She was the only person who didn’t show up and we even gave her a plus 1. She makes an effort not to acknowledge my existence, it’s super weird.

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