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Starting to be too scared of dicks to want one in me 😭 the fact I have to risk pregnancy or sti to have sex… not to mention that even safe sex can give u a uti
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Anonymous 7w

I promise prevention methods work pretty well if used correctly and to avoid sti stop fuckin dirty mfs

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Anonymous 7w

Don’t worry you can still have fun sex without penetration!! I’ve been doing it for the past 9 months cause my partners dick is too big to the point it hurts and we haven’t found a solution yet. If someone’s good enough for you they’ll be fine going at your pace and only doing what you want to do 🩷🩷

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Anonymous 7w

there’s prevention methods love

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Anonymous 7w

I’m a guy but I feel you. It’s why I only have sex after getting to know someone for alittle. Hookups are fun but not worth the risk over a stranger lol

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Anonymous 7w

It doesn’t get better especially when your partner is on the bigger side. I get scared everytime we have sex 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> medstudent 7w

Yeah but nothing is 100% safe

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

nowadays certain methods are

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Anonymous replying to -> medstudent 7w

No, nothing can be 100% except complete hysterectomy and oophorectomy for pregnancy (and abstinence for stis and pregnancy), but we do have near 100 methods that should reasonably curb most fears when you’re with a trusted committed partner

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

I’ve never seen a mirena or nexplanon fail

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Anonymous replying to -> medstudent 7w

Just because YOUVE never seen it doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen (I believe nexplanon is 2 in every 1000 users experience a pregnancy?)

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Anonymous replying to -> medstudent 7w

The preventative rates are annual so its really like 98% chance every year until it expires, thats why certain meds that cause bad pregnancy complications require two different forms of contraceptive, nothing is completely 100% other than not participating

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

100% this anyone worth being with will understand and want you to be comfortable

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