Anonymous #1 13w

Cap it existed before Mormons and a lot of African and native Americans civilizations actually did it in a healthy manner without the egocentric looking down on each other aspect, you like to bring up so much. Spiritual love and ego with love are two completely different things and we live in a world of ego with love so you’re gonna keep viewing things as ego with love when in reality we could be talking about spiritual love, and you would never know the difference

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Anonymous #1 13w

Your perception of the world is ignorant, and it betrays you the world is filled with a lot more vibrancy than you’re allowing yourself to see

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Anonymous #1 13w

Having multiple partners whether it’s women or men or a mixed group has existed since humanities started civilization which means whether you deny it or accept it, it is a part of us nonetheless. There is healthy ways of doing it and unhealthy ways of doing it but all the examples you pull from are the unhealthy ways. It has been done so your perception is tainted and lacks the full spectrum of knowledge required to have a wise opinion.

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Anonymous OP 13w

One of us is actively involved in Native American culture and the other is pulling shit out of his ass from forever ago. there’s a reason that those kids didn’t grow up to understand love and the value of partnership. Why do you think it’s frowned upon now? Men can’t be a father to multiple women without the women doing ALL of the hard work

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Anonymous OP 13w

healthy? only healthy if none of you really are in love but love each other as people like how fwb care about each other. It’s avoiding true vulnerability and you know it

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You’re still projecting, even though I’ve explained my position to you clearly at that. I’ve already come to the realization that there is no getting through to you because you think you vividly know something when you don’t. I can’t explain something you aren’t actually attempting to comprehend.

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Anonymous #1 13w

Everything you literally just said is a projection bar for bar

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Anonymous OP 13w

likewise. you remind me of Elon musk 😭

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Do I want you to relive your past traumas and woes no cause frankly you’re still not over him and need healing. If you keep viewing things through the lens of your negative experiences, you will never fully understand the picture you’re looking at because it’s like looking at a full landscape with blurry vision.

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Anonymous #1 13w

And the assumption that one of us is actively involved in Native American culture is actually crazy considering the fact that you don’t even fucking know me or my history on the reserve 😭😭😭

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Anonymous #1 13w

You projected your belief men throughout every conversation we have had as if it’s facts when in reality, it is a opinion based on unhealed pain

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Anonymous OP 13w

I’m not projecting, I’m telling it like it is. There’s no being in love on that deeper level with polyamory. I basically did that with situationships and I wasn’t attached to any of them. you need to communicate so one partner is able to fulfill all of your needs and so you both work for the love and stay loyal. That’s how people actually deepen their connections and strengthen them. It’s immature. Early humans also killed each other and were incestuous and we know that’s wrong and their minds

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Anonymous #1 13w

were underdeveloped. As an evolved society, we should be capable of a higher level of emotional intelligence which means not sleeping w multiple people and complete commitment to our partners.

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Anonymous #1 13w

“I’m not projecting” (proceeds to project your personal beliefs in regards to something you obviously don’t have any credible knowledge about)

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Anonymous #1 13w

Also wasn’t talking about polyamory talking about polygamy two completely different things both our group dynamics, but one is about marriage. The other isn’t.

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Anonymous #1 13w

just saw you have Neanderthal ancestry and let’s wrap up this argument. I’m a stem major I don’t have time for r3tards that can’t understand that it was men that held power over women that made this the norm in ancient times

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Anonymous OP 13w

Are*

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Anonymous #1 13w

No one person can fulfill all of your needs especially considering our needs change over time It is also selfish to expect someone to fulfill all of your needs while also trying to maintain their own needs.

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Anonymous OP 13w

Over who? What are you yapping about? Making up random shit ab me to prove your argument doesn’t make you right😭

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Anonymous #1 13w

The whole monogamy thing was actually invented by the moors to show a deeper level of dedication to their woman because the deeper spiritual aspect of polygamy became neglected overtime and got adopted by pleasure seekers rather than people who are seeking deep intimacy who originally created it in the first place.

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Anonymous #1 13w

That’s literally what you’ve done throughout This conversation made shit up about me just to prove yourself right so you can laugh all you want, but you honestly look ignorant right now.

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Anonymous OP 13w

Dude if you had ANY history on a reserve you’d know that that outdated norm led to the abuse and abandonment of countless native women 💀. My grandma lived on one full time and has no filter anymore. The stories are sickening.

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Anonymous #1 13w

The fact that you think just because you’re a stem, major means you have intelligent opinions proves my point that you lack comprehension of what we’re actually talking about. A degree doesn’t mean intelligence and the fact that you think that is honestly a shame. A participation sticker is a participation sticker nonetheless.

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Anonymous #1 13w

And if you had any Native American history, you would know that there was just as many success stories as there was failures so keep talking, you’re just proving your ignorance

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Anonymous OP 13w

babes I do. Do I have to go into detail about emotional abuse and surface level connections and abandoned children and wives? Google exists you know

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Anonymous OP 13w

Any woman who gets involved with you probably avoids being with you all the time by being with other men bc you’re a shit partner. Hate to break it to u

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Success stories from men and women that have learned to push down their emotional pain or who never cared about their husbands in that way in the first place but got stuck w kids

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Anonymous OP 13w

Have you had an emotionally intelligent conversation with a native woman or with a woman EVER? if you’ve got a wives ik they are tired of your ass

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Anonymous OP 13w

Passing you around like a blunt bc none of them want to deal with your bullshit for a prolonged period of time

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Anonymous OP 13w

Men like you are why women say they hate all men. stay single until death. don’t burden beautiful women with your bullshit bc you aren’t capable of loving someone in the deepest way possible. Maybe try dating men

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Anonymous #1 13w

You done projecting? Get it all out of your system yet or are you still going?

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Anonymous #1 13w

So far every woman I’ve been with all say the same thing “ you make me feel seen” and “you’ve been my healthiest relationship” not my fault if you don’t comprehend anything I’ve said this entire conversation. Also I’m lucky to have a wifey who does legitimately understand everything i tried discussing with you in a respectful manner as you projected and insulted your way through the conversation like a child who is getting their way.

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Anonymous #1 13w

I don’t think you understand the fact that what I’m talking about takes emotional intelligence to actually comprehend and act upon in a healthy manner in the first place

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Anonymous #1 13w

If you get all your information and knowledge from Google you already lost

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Anonymous #1 13w

Women like you make genuinely competent and emotionally intelligent women look bad

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