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Confessions 16w

GUYS. I am talking about a 33YR OLDDDDDD. NOT A CHILD. OMFG.

Confessions 16w

im a 22f, in yalls opinion…..howwwww bad is an 11yr age gap

Anonymous 16w

eh, i think age gaps are less of a concern after 21 but also i’m 32 and wouldn’t personally date anyone under 24

Anonymous 16w

Girl I’m in the same boat and honestly just be careful they don’t think you’re naive

Anonymous 16w

It is your life no one can tell you how to live it. You are happy good, and make sure he got your best interest and not trying to trick you

Anonymous 16w

Idk girl… these relationships almost always skew unbalanced towards the older person. Obv idk anything abt y’all’s relationship but the age gap but I always ask: What does a 33 y/o have in common w a 22 y/o? Would you date a 22 y/o at 33? If not, why not? Why isn’t he dating somebody in his age group? What do you want out of the relationship/ where do you see it going? 22 is so SO young (also 22 lol) you have so much life ahead of you! 🫶🫶

Anonymous 16w

I wouldn’t trust it

Anonymous

#4 16w

That’s understandable, I know a lot of older guys think most girls my age can be super immature or it’s just a preference

Anonymous

OP 16w

I mean are these girls really immature or are they just acting like a 22 year old girl

Anonymous

#1 16w

Everyone acts differently, I’d have to say there really is no such thing as “acting like a 22yr old girl”. If you’re 22 and still acting like a teenager at a grown age, you’re 100% immature, which is what a lot of older men’s problem is with women in the early 20s from what I’ve gathered

Anonymous

OP 16w

I see what you mean. It’s just when you’re comparing these age range, one party has more life experience than the other. It makes sense if ppl in their younger 20’s are immature

Anonymous

#1 16w

Yeah that I can understand, and most people are, it’s honestly kind of rare to find people in the younger 20s who actually act like a grown adult. And then it sucks for the small handful of us that actually try to be the adults that we are cuz everyone else our age is stupid as all hell

Anonymous

#1 16w

And girl to girl, if this relationship serves you then yay but I suggest being aware of how these older men talk about girls your age and women their age. Saying this with kindness and from experience

Anonymous

#1 16w

Thankfully this guy is super sweet, genuine and gentleman 🙏🏼 I am very aware of how they talk about things like that, especially with medical workers it can be worse. Also we stan a girls girl 🫶🏼

Anonymous

OP 16w

A gentleman* oops

Anonymous

OP 16w

That’s good I’m glad to hear that. Also just saying that it’s ok to do your best to be responsible and also be “stupid” (I prefer the word silly) / make dumb decisions. Early 20’s are the best time to enjoy that. It reminds me of how children try to grow up quickly these days, early 20’s fly by 😩😩 I hope you get to enjoy yours :) Watching tv show “Girls” can be a funny example of growing up as a young adult girl

Anonymous

#6 16w

It’s not a bad thing to be young and have fun and be a girl in her 20s. A lot of guys trying to date younger will play the “you’re so mature for your age” card to make you feel special or better equipped to date an older man when it doesn’t have anything to do w maturity. Take care of yourself and trust your own discernment and the advice of the ppl who love you 😙✌️