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i’ve been in a long term relationship since i was 15, and i just met this girl three weeks ago and want to risk it all
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Anonymous 1w

You need to seriously evaluate then how you feel about your relationship. All the memories you’ve made, do you really want to throw it away for someone you just met?

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Anonymous 1w

Everyone changes, let the current one go first

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Anonymous 1w

Don’t let you girlfriend stop you from finding your wife! 100% kidding! It’s not worth it

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Anonymous 1w

Break up, THEN go for the other girl. Words get around between girls and the next girl u try to date will figure out ur a cheater at some point if u get caught

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

And, what happens if it doesn’t work out? Rather than considering the potential positive outcome, think of the current situation you’d be ending. I think it can be often weird and reductive to end relationships because you want to start another, esp when there’s no other reason. If you want to end the relationship, end it, but you’ve made your commitment and you should stick to it until you change the circumstances.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Nobody is going to tell you to stay in a relationship you don’t wanna be in, but you shouldn’t tell yourself that jumping ship is the best way to exit. Also if you’ve been together that long, lowkey be single for a little! You can learn a lot about yourself. Breaking up should be a decision that should be about YOU, not any potential partners or “not wanting to break their heart.”

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

i agree

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

ion know if your kidding😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

your right

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

your right thank you for this i definitely don’t plan on getting another relationship anytime soon, i just felt bad for my girl because of my feeelinys for this other girl

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