I can’t think of a good example off the top of my head but it usually blends into the conversation. Something that could turn the conversation sexual if he responds with that in mind. This is a very bad example but lets say we were talking about video games and I said something like “I was getting pounded by the enemy team’s flanker” not as elegant but if he latches on to “pounded” I lose interest.
Fucking Christ yea, I would literally just immediately block. May or may not come as a surprise, but there are definitely guys who are just as sexually aggressive when they find out you’re gay. Yea there’s a bunch of homonyms that definitely depend on the context, but ya know that was probably the only word they heard.