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(CW: SA) kind of really embarrassed because i’m realizing i was absolutely taken advantage of and coerced in my previous relationship but i don’t have contact with this person nor do i want to confront them so like. does it even matter it happened 😕
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Anonymous 1d

Yes it matters, your feelings and ur experience is all very real and u deserve closure in your own way. Not saying u gotta reach out to them im just saying dont sell yourself short into thinking it doesn’t matter :/

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Anonymous 1d

I’m sorry that happened to you. It matters because it was wrong and it hurt you. You have nothing to feel embarrassed about, it isn’t your fault. Manipulation can happen to anyone, the reason evil people do it is because it works. They are the one who should feel ashamed.

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Anonymous 1d

Of course, I hope you can find a path to healing

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 1d

i just don’t really know what to do with the information ig. it fucking sucks and i don’t really feel like i can talk about it with anyone because people always joke about how gullible and susceptible to manipulation i am but like. they’re not wrong.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Just because you’re gullible to manipulation doesn’t mean u deserved to get manipulated. That guilt and shame should lay with the People who take advantage of those incapable of knowing better. You can always reach out to a therapist, or a family member if u don’t want to go the professional route, or just a really trustworthy friend

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 1d

i think i will someday. i have people that i trust and i know they won’t shame me and i know i definitely didn’t deserve it. i just already feel comparatively dumber to everyone else around me so this just doesn’t make me feel better in that regard.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

appreciate this, thank u 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

actually the self deprecation towards the end there was pretty corny. i do relatively feel pretty good about myself most of the time, this is just a sudden realization i had that made me feel stupid but i’m trying not to internalize that cuz i know at the end of the day it really isn’t my fault. end of ramble fr now, seriously thank you for listening.

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