Anonymous #2 22h

I mean it’s not wearing. It’s obvious body positioning, how your interacting with your environment in the pics, and the same issues I have with men blurry pics, no smiles, mirror selfies that are the girl version of that lifted shirt ab pic.

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Anonymous OP 22h

you can phrase it however you want, it’s still weird to immediately be sexual with someone you don’t know. there’s no situation that justifies that

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Anonymous #2 22h

Yeah. But based off the 4 consecutive profile swipes I was shown I was like… I’m not even interested and it looks like that’s what they wanted to engage with. From what was written in their bio and everything. Like if we get bitchy about the damn fish pics we need to be frustrated with the ass out squatter in front of a mustang where you can see a thong. Boys swiping through thinking it’s an OF ad.

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Anonymous OP 22h

again it doesn’t matter how someone is dressed or what their pictures look like. everyone deserves basic respect. that includes not being sexual without having a convo about that first and making sure both people are okay with it

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Anonymous OP 22h

or just mind your business and let women do what they want

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Anonymous #3 22h

It’s ruining dating for everyone. I am minding my own business. It does collectively impact me

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Anonymous OP 22h

ofc you’re blaming women instead of telling men to stop being weird

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Anonymous #2 22h

lol. You’re right I’ve never called men out. Never ever. lol

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Anonymous OP 22h

in this situation you aren’t, and they’re the ones you have an issue with. if you think men being sexual is ruining dating, your problem is with the men. unless you think they can’t control themselves?

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Anonymous #2 22h

If I’m gonna get mad at a guys poor self advertising on aps. Cause that’s what it is. I can absolutely call out gals too. Collectively it makes the dating pool shit.

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Anonymous #2 22h

Oh they can and I get mad at them regularly. But in general it’s like this over normalization and hyper sexuality of the modern dating world. Idk. It’s frustrating on all accounts. I feel it’s hypocritical to be like don’t objectify me but please watch as i objectify myself. I’m just seeing that it’s shit on both sides.

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Anonymous OP 22h

women are allowed to express their sexuality without wanting to be sexualized by random men online

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Anonymous #3 22h

On a dating app, to attract a partner, that will naturally have an increased sexual vibe? Yeah I’d be more wary of how I advertise myself on that over my sexuality on insta.

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Anonymous OP 22h

yeah and making excuses for men’s inability to control their sexual desire is the root of that problem. you’re going after women when the actual problem you have is with men. if they didn’t see women as a monolith, you wouldn’t have to worry about how someone else’s profile impacts your dating

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Anonymous #2 21h

If they get rewarded with a dopamine hit and that’s normalized it impacts all of society. But whatever. It’s just hypocritical

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Anonymous OP 21h

again your issue is with men 😭 if men were able to be normal it wouldn’t matter what a woman posts, bc they’d have the common decency to know to not be sexual with a stranger

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Anonymous #2 21h

It takes two to tango. You can’t blame everything on men either. I’m blaming both sides.

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Anonymous OP 21h

okay let’s say all women started covering up and weren’t sexual at all. do you really honestly think that would stop men? or do you think the ones who’d be sexual immediately would still find something to objectify? look at the posts on here. almost every feature a woman has has been posted about sexually. you’re blaming women for the actions of men

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Anonymous OP 21h

if it was consensual yes, two people do need to be involved. but the sexual comments men leave AREN’T consensual. it doesn’t matter what a woman does or doesn’t have on that never justifies unwanted sexual comments

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Anonymous #4 15h

Again not about the clothes. I’m girlie who races with her ass out. It’s essentially posting OF ads and then getting mad when a guy treats you like an ad.

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Anonymous OP 15h

but the whole point is it doesn’t matter what they’re posting, guys shouldn’t objectify them, that’s never alright, no one’s agreeing with you wake up

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Anonymous #3 15h

Publicly shows attention seeking behaviors, gets the attention, angry/surprised it worked … too well? Idk. All I see when I post my issues with men’s profiles are girls upset about objectification which is part of the reason I’m frustrated, but then no one can shame a girl for not holding the bar as high for herself as she does men? I guess we can all hate men and women are not to be criticized. Whatever.

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Anonymous OP 15h

you’re .5 seconds away from asking a rape victim what she was wearing. get a grip

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Anonymous #2 15h

Hypocrite. And I may not be a right victim, but I am a domestic abuse victim. I still stand by what I say. Women deserve better, but so do men.

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Anonymous OP 15h

*rape

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Anonymous OP 15h

how am i a hypocrite when YOU’RE the one saying women deserve unwanted sexual comments bc of how they’re dressed 😭

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Anonymous #2 15h

right? lol

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