Best way to look at anything is there is nothing wrong with being who you are. It’s only wrong if you know it’s know what is right and doing nothing about it. Work on yourself. Even if you don’t go to the gym the best way to lose weight is genuinely eating less. People don’t understand how much they truly eat until they start paying attention. Use apps to track your calories until you have a better understanding of how your diet should be.
i know it’s frustrating but good for you! every meal is a new opportunity to make good decisions. it’s never too late and setbacks are not the end of the world. these are tips that have helped a lot of people w weight loss. calories are important to focus on but they are not the only factor when it comes to losing weight and gaining muscle :)