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as i’ve aged i’ve found healthy doses of masculinity to be more and more attractive, like i LOVE that my man Wants to be a provider for me and is (physically) strong
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Anonymous 1d

this is also you shirking your own agency btw

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Anonymous 1d

men who recognize their privilege and their strength and use it to help or uplift people without it are so hot. i don’t need a man but i want one yk. i love a man who’s outdoorsy but also doesn’t mind painting his nails

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

it’s not that i Can’t provide for myself, he just wants to so i let him

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

yesss

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

eventually that will result in you being unable to if needed

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

respectfully, you don’t know me, my life, my ambitions, nothing. you have no way of knowing this!! i never plan on becoming so reliant on him i would lack my own agency. i’m going back to grad school to get my masters soon and i actually have enough money saved up that i will have little to no debt doing it. but i Also have enough of an income to support myself at the same time if i needed to

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

ok, fine i can’t deterministically predict your life outcome, but i can recognize the societal pattern of female disenfranchisement and the internalized misogyny in your dynamic.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

i don’t see how letting my bf pay the bulk of rent and shit so i can spend mg money on other shit is internalized misogyny

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

pay your fair share or lose the ability to

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

idk why you’re so hell bent on it tbh bc i’ve never let anyone else treat me this way, it’s because i know my partner respects me as a person and loves me deeply and that’s why he wants to help take care of me and make my life easier any way he can. if i didn’t trust he thought of me that way i would never accept his help in this way

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

again, in no way is it going to make me lose my ability to! goof

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