do you think it’s possible to teach someone how to love you chivalrously? or is that something you think they do automatically when they’re really invested in you?
You shouldnt have to teach them. It should either be natural, or they should take the time to learn it by themselves
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Anonymous1d
tell them what you expect and if they don’t put in effort to accomplish that they don’t care
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Anonymous#11d
is it fair to assume they know that’s what you want though?
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AnonymousOP1d
Hmm i think maybe give subtle hints on you want to be loved, or just have a conversation. Tell them or hint at what you want and let them work on doing it subconsciously.