So basically: here’s what you do Tell him that you really like him, and if he’d like to be anything more you would to If he says no, then you work out and grind until you’re a legitimate 10, then you make HIM want to be with YOU instead of the other way around Sun tzu once said “All warfare is based on deception.” As well as “he will win who knows when to fight and when not to fight.” These two principles will carry you to the figurative promised land here