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every single time after i masturbate i feel so guilty like it’s wrong to do, how to stop feeling about about it? (i feel like it’s wrong of me to do and almost abnormal or gross idk?)
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Anonymous 6w

I use to feel this way. It gets easier if you find people who are more sex positive if that makes sense. Also, it begins to lessen over time. Especially after you come to terms that it’s perfectly natural. Although, I would recommend seeing a therapist if it’s a really intrusive thought and messes with your everyday life/relationships. Overall it took time, acceptance, and gentle reminders to myself that it’s natural.

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Anonymous 6w

masturbation is healthy. deconstructing shame around sex takes time and effort

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Masturbation CAN be healthy. If it’s a daily thing it’s much more of an addiction, especially if it’s in conjunction with porn.

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