Anonymous #2 12w

She’s so stubborn. I try to too and she ends up refusing the money. Once I forced her to take the money and she drove it to my mail box. I feel bad because she ALWAYS does my nails since she’s bored

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Anonymous OP 12w

I’m like her test person

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Anonymous OP 12w

sneak some bills in her wallet while she’s not looking 👀

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Anonymous #5 12w

Her old school bag is nearby and I’m thinking about slipping it into the small front pocket lmao

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Anonymous #9 12w

I’m a nursing student so not my class got jobs about 6 months before graduation. I was a CNA in the NICU so I got my NICU nurse job very quick since they knew me

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Anonymous OP 12w

Well I was a nursing student

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Anonymous #13 12w

Nyrsingt

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Anonymous OP 12w

Nursing***

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Anonymous #14 12w

Yessir. Graduated debt free. My money sits in my high yieldings

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Anonymous OP 12w

So all my class*. I can’t spell today

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Anonymous OP 12w

What state? I’m interested in NICU post grad too and just did an externship on a NICU floor this summer!

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Anonymous OP 12w

dont give her money. take her out to eat, get her random gifts, etc. if she doesn't want money, she might genuinely feel bad for it but rejecting gifts is usually frowned upon so shes more likely to accept it

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Anonymous #27 12w

no way dude what

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Anonymous #28 12w

maybe gift her with nail supplies that r expensive so ur covering her cost of materials

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Anonymous #41 12w

This is a really good idea. I feel like she’s most likely to accept this.

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Anonymous #27 12w

Ngl I used to give my bum ex so much money because he wasn’t going to school and kept getting fired + always gambling. Thank GOD that relationship is over

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Anonymous #28 12w

Yk what, Imma take her out to eat when she passes her boards. We need a boba date so badly

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Anonymous orange_eyes47 12w

Jealousy really is such an ugly thing 😬

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Anonymous #35 12w

Are you kidding me? Look how you type lmao. Can’t even spell full words, yet you’re over here telling somebody to grow up for using for sharing their happiness on a media platform😂

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Anonymous #36 12w

What are you majoring in?

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Anonymous OP 12w

This girl was 27 and unemployed and he was 23

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Anonymous OP 12w

They’re over and HE misses HER

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Anonymous #27 12w

“Ig model” i wish we would stop saying this and streamer like they are legit jobs, and like 90% or more of podcast hosts. They are the diet version of gig jobs that also very rarely work out even on the more “professional” side of these industries. Dont get me started on how many people from my hometown are 30+ trying to be sound cloud rappers cause of j cole

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Anonymous #21 12w

True bro true

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Anonymous #27 12w

Ah hell nah. Tell him to stand up

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Anonymous #45 12w

speech therapy and becoming a medical SLP!

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Anonymous #36 12w

God bless you guys. One of my kids was recovering from a stroke (back when I was a nursing student) and you guys did wonders for her

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Anonymous #35 12w

She’s living big and here you are hating…just a reminder😭

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Anonymous #7 12w

I’m MAXING it out when I start my job, dw

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Anonymous #28 12w

Yeah definitely this. I have friends like this and the best option is usually to do something for them in return like make them dinner

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Anonymous OP 12w

look into HYSAs if you don’t already have one. Congrats on the job as well!

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Anonymous OP 12w

Unfortunately he’s a loser, a smart and pretty successful loser tho

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Anonymous #53 12w

Oh I have one. I get like 30 a month and literally never touch that account. Emergency money

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Anonymous #56 12w

Nursing

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Anonymous OP 12w

Ah figures. Nursing will always have good outcomes in the job market.

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Anonymous OP 12w

Damn I’m in accounting maybe I should e went into nirsing

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Anonymous OP 12w

i appreciate comments like this. i want mainly help people recover from strokes and tbi patients. i’m glad your child got some amazing care!

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Anonymous #38 12w

Accounting is a great career too! CPAs make bank

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Anonymous #2 12w

CC s a I

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Anonymous #66 12w

I GOT ONE WHEN I WENT TO HAWAII LAST WEEK!!!!!

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Anonymous OP 12w

Well it was a foot massage but my fucking gosh it felt good

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Anonymous OP 12w

I LOVE THAT FOR YOU STFU

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Its just like she needs a second to process it so she can believe it for herself

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I’m actually giggling at this rn I’m saying it cause I’m happy for her like no way you go girl

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Anonymous OP 12w

That’s great. You’re setting yourself up for success

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Anonymous #71 12w

Idk if this helps but if you want a healthcare job, get a job as a tech in a children’s hospital. I get paid like 30/hr to get vitals, hold crying babies and change diapers. So easy and fun

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Anonymous #75 12w

Nah cause back when I used to date, why was I paying for BOTH of us in dates 💀. They never have money

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Anonymous #27 12w

Who just gives someone 40k

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Anonymous OP 12w

Sounds like you shouldn’t feel bad then! She knows you would like to pay her but she wants to do it for you anyway, so just enjoy it and if she ever does want payment, I’m sure you’ll give something to her and she’ll be grateful 😇

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Anonymous #83 12w

OP dm me and give me financial advice ya girl is unemployed 😔🙏

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Anonymous #68 12w

Open a CD bank account. You earn money off the money you put in. And actually write down and assess what funds you have and what you can and can’t spend each week or month. Any income is better than no income so see what local businesses are hiring and just get whatever hours you can. It’s MAJORLY important to be earning money these days. But definitely look into CD accounts

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Anonymous #84 12w

ty 🫶🫶

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Anonymous #87 12w

I wish it was possible for one person to make that much of a difference in this world.

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Anonymous #18 12w

It is possible. I only make 40k a year and afford everything I need and give 100$ a paycheck to my local shelter and 50$ to my friend who started his own program packaging meals for the homeless. 1 person makes a difference by being a living example for others to follow.

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Anonymous #87 12w

I mean in nursing school we literally had a clinical rotation only decided to volunteering at homeless shelters, food banks. I worked in the peds ER and literally sat alone with raped kids. Played with them when they were scared. I volunteered in pediatric oncology. I work with premature babies. Literally so many babies born addicted to drugs w my family at their bedside. I also volunteer with the angel tree program. Been doing it since my 1st year of college. Plan on doing it until I die

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Anonymous OP 12w

I do some good in the world and plan on doing even more good as a nurse :)

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Anonymous OP 12w

I actually plan on being a nurse practitioner to do more :). I’ve had multiple parents and teenagers tell me just as their CNA I was amazing because I was the only one that “seemed to care”. Sit down before coming for me

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Anonymous OP 12w

Good on you for that!

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Anonymous OP 12w

I’ve been sitting. How was I coming for you? I asked a genuine question and made a genuine statement about modest living. If you felt like I was attacking you that’s your own self conscious.

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Anonymous OP 12w

Pay her in food or whatever else she likes instead of cash. Just say you “felt like getting x for her” and “saw it and thought of her” or something. She’ll never know

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Anonymous #87 12w

You made it seem bad I just simply wanted to travel. I can do things I love while also doing other good things in the world

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Anonymous #91 12w

Yessss or refills for her nail kit too could be a nice gift other than paying for her food

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Anonymous #7 12w

Ugh im waiting for when im a doctor to REALLY start contributing, rn my jobs are on and off bc of education 😭

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Anonymous #81 12w

Him apparently, bouta make an insta rn this job search going terribly

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Anonymous #87 12w

You act like having 10k in the bank is on elons level or something. Go pick on a greedy millionaire and not a person fresh into their career who’s trying to build a life for themself as they should

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Anonymous #87 12w

So you give $150 a paycheck and immediately think you’re better than everyone else?

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Anonymous #101 12w

Well, she said she was a nurse so…

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Anonymous #93 12w

Current cat lady wym

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Anonymous #94 12w

Yeah she’s also a nursing graduate and her shop gives her like 6k a MONTH. She’s rich asf and wants to open her own private business while practicing as a nurse so she practices on me like twice a month

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Anonymous OP 12w

Get a risk heavy stock portfolio too. Tech and bank etfs are good. Snp, maybe some companies you like. You can have a lot of diff savings accounts, not just a Roth IRA. Ur employer prolly matches 401ks too

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Anonymous #45 12w

Better than everyone who doesn’t, yes. Yall are the hypocrites you hate Elon but don’t hate the path to be like him. You think he started where he is no every rich greedy disgusting millionaire is just as disgusting as every middle class American who does the same shit with their money. I hate Elon just as much as every other privileged American who doesn’t understand the value of their wealth! Elon does the exact same thing as OP does aside from her helping the world nursing

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Anonymous #87 12w

If you wanna be mad at Elon being selfish look in the mirror how many Americans need to go on a vacation every year go to Disney every year buy a boat buy a four wheeler all of those same people if they were in elons shoes they would be buying yachts and planes it is no different it’s the same mental perspective it’s selfish

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Anonymous #87 12w

How many Americans buy a new phone every year and go out to eat 4 days a week if literally all of that stopped it would make a difference and it would help pull everyone to a middle ground and end poverty!!

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Anonymous #87 12w

It’s called being rich and privileged which you clearly don’t understand😭i enjoy my vacations and boat rides🤗

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Anonymous #87 12w

Bro that’s the literal stupidest take. Nobody makes money if nobody spends money you idiot

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Anonymous #103 12w

Nursing student. Basically no going out. Working on my days off

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Anonymous #79 12w

There is a major difference between spending money and being overindulgent with your purchases I have 50$ a month I set aside for entertainment be it going out with my friends once or twice a month or the single streaming service I have. I didn’t say people can’t spend money on themselves but a yearly vacation for someone middle class is just as bad as a weekly vacation for someone like Elon

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Anonymous #30 12w

Im sure you do. You must be hard republican with a take like that not caring at all about the millions of human lives that live in dirt.

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Anonymous #87 12w

my parents and I work hard for our money and we like to use it however we please i don’t see an issue 😭 nothing in life is free

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Anonymous #30 12w

And I’m sure Elon and Trump think the exact same way 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #87 12w

u can’t expect to live off other people, maybe work hard or don’t complain about things you can’t afford 😂

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Anonymous #87 12w

Are you saying there are no poor Republicans? The more you talk the more ignorant you sound.

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Anonymous #45 12w

They’re not the brightest tool in the shed

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Anonymous #45 12w

No i’m saying a real liberal would understand the difficulties that effect the impoverished and would go out of their way to help and definitely wouldn’t just go oh it’s their fault their poor sucks to suck like it’s a disgusting take and shows how little you understand about the world.

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Anonymous #30 12w

Explain.

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Anonymous #87 12w

Yeah so you’re telling me Newsom and Biden gave away all their money to the poor? Or are you saying they’re not real liberal?

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Anonymous #30 12w

How am I “not the brightest tool in the shed” I seem to have a much larger perspective and understanding of world judging from your obvious lack of experience. I’ve seen poverty first hand and I’ve seen rich assholes first hand while working with the state legislature to make changes for the foster care system. I’ve read an whole bookshelf of books addressing social issues written from the 50s to present. I am very educated and know what I’m talking about. I’m sorry if it’s over your head

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Anonymous #45 12w

Im saying they aren’t real liberals. They disgust me as much as trump not Newsom because I don’t know enough about him actually I’d have to look into it.

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Anonymous #87 12w

For someone that claims to be educated and have read an entire, your English isn’t good nor are your comprehension skills. You seem to be the type of person that picks things out of context to fit your agenda.

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Anonymous #45 12w

Im an editor and English major graduate I’m not working in not using proper English this is yy im just saying how I feel take it as you will I really don’t care I’m done with the conversation

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