
him being a piece of shit doesn’t make you not a piece of shit, i genuinely don’t understand your thought process, my ex was also an alcoholic who raped me, but i’d never cheat because someone else’s wrong doings don’t encourage me to be a bad person too, i want to be better than them
that’s your opinion, i don’t think murder is ever moral, i don’t think taking back what a thief took of yours is “stealing” because it’s your property, and i don’t think cheating is ever right either, people are able to do things they believe aren’t moral because the outcome overrides the priority of goodness, everything has nuance, things being immoral doesn’t stop people from doing them because the outcome of their behavior is more important to them
Yeah you’re right, it’s super fucking embarrassing that I was groomed and manipulated by an older man when I was a teenager who pretty much forced me to marry him when I turned 18 and it was even more embarrassing when I grew as a person and decided to leave my abusive relationship and get a divorce