Yep, I’ve found that as I’ve aged I’ve become infinitely more comfortable with myself and learning about myself in a more introspective way. It’s one of those things that when you’re younger as a guy you simply cannot fathom how much depth is lacking.

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As an older man I can say this is true. The stuff we do in our thirties forces maturity and growth. Mortgage, leadership in careers, kids etc.

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They want to hear you, they just want to talk.

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Go for what you want as long as it’s legal. You are being gaslit by the society and maybe even by other women to reduce competition for themselves

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