I think it’s a little bad in the sense that relationships where you experience poor treatment regularly are not sustainable or good for your health. You should look for ways to satiate this desire for conflict in a more healthy way, have some kinky rough sex or establish boundaries for playful arguments and stuff. If you want a little excitement you can scratch that itch, but if you want to be genuinely harmed then that’s not good for you, and any man who would do it w no remorse is not good

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