It’s MUCH harder to be the punisher than the punishee.
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Anonymous#18w
I want to be ruined 😍
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AnonymousOP8w
Yeah but like- as someone whose ex was into BDSM, and the kind of societal norms of “a man should never hit a woman” we (some not all) feel VERY guilty with BDSM, even if it’s wanted or with a safe word.
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Anonymous#18w
Yeah but that’s why I said I want it and I wish he was into it. Ik why