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I don’t think my boyfriend really wants to be in this relationship anymore it’s so weird being in a relationship but being single at the same time
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Anonymous 1d

So leave?

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Anonymous 1d

you’re not single

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Anonymous 1d

same like idk what we are or how to talk about it it’s like breaking up but not actually saying it

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Anonymous 1d

yeah this happened to me a few years ago then he broke up with me a month later

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

It’s so hard

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

dude yes Liek he’s barley talking to me anymore like what the hell this isn’t what a relationship is and I say that because this isn’t how we were before

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

and then he’s like wdym 🫩🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

like just everything has changed

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

yessss omfg we’re in the same boat

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I feel very single. I don’t have a partner at the end of the day, he’s not there for me anymore he doesn’t make me feel loved nor supported or cared or appreciated for. We barely talk, it feels like a stranger almost.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

yeah it’s sad

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Do u wanna talk abt it girl? Cus i can barely bring this up to my friends so if you want to my dms are open <3

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

I feel like he doesn’t wanna leave me because I’m the only thing he has and I feel the same way like we’re so bonded but we don’t have a relationship anymore like I feel like we’re only together because we love each other but we’re not in love anymore, he says he is, but this isn’t how you act when you’re in love and I’m still falling out of it cause I feel constantly disrespected.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

have you told this to him? I know I’m beating a dead horse when I say this but communication is key

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19h

Yes he just tells me that’s not how it is and that he’s just busy and tells me he’s sorry for trying to make a living

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

it sounds like he’s invalidating how you’re feeling rather than actually listening to your concerns which is a red flag

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

ofc and text me if u wanna talk about it too 🤍

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