Agreed but also dont you think if someone is happily married that wandering eyes either wouldn’t happen or maybe they arent negative? Idk if that makes sense. Im not excusing cheating or anything like that.
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Anonymous#12d
This is truly one of my biggest fears. What do you mean by this? Why would someone I wander if they were happy in their relationship and all their needs are met
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Anonymous#32d
I get that yeah I struggle with worry about my partner even if they give me no reason to be nervous at all. Ig ik that for me when I’ve been dating I’ll occasionally look at a woman or even a man for that matter but I’ll catch and correct myself since I hate cheaters.
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Anonymous#12d
And what is happening inside of your head when you’re looking at them?
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Anonymous#32d
Depends. Sometimes it’s not great like “damn she’s cute or he’s hot” other times it’s simply stupid things like being annoyed at them or stuff non romantic. Yeah it’s not perfect but no one is. Not justifying the thoughts.
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Anonymous#12d
But in the end doesn’t matter cause my partner is there for me and my world. I wouldn’t cheat on them. Period.
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Anonymous#12d
Why does the thought of my partner doing that to me bug me so much and I don’t even have a partner like just thinking about that hurts my stomach