Anonymous #1 2d

No, not rumors because whenever I talk about dating to someone new or my friends or a total strangers that I have met , they think that way> when i tell them no I haven’t, they ask me if I am gay?

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Anonymous OP 2d

I mean, respectfully, do you look like someone who wouldn’t have any trouble getting someone to sleep with you? Not that that would be a justification for treating you that way or anything, I’m just curious about what would lead them to such conclusions otherwise. Also feel free not to respond to this question if you don’t feel like it, but just curious, what gender do you identify with? It doesn’t matter, I’m just trying to get a better idea of the situation

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Anonymous #1 2d

Not really, I mean guys do approach me but I’m not into sleeping around! And I identify as a woman and born as a woman so I don’t know what’s the problem ! I asked my friends and they said I act like I have a bf but idk how I act

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Anonymous OP 2d

Honestly, I can’t say for sure but based on what you’ve told me so far, I can only assume that people think that bc they think you are very attractive and therefore unlikely to have reached this age without having done the things they think you did. That’s still really shitty of people to do, of course, but I really can’t think of any other reason why they’d assume such things about you.

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Anonymous OP 2d

When they say you act like you have a bf, do they mean that you reject guys who approach you/take interest in you all the time? Like, as if you had a bf, I guess. Still, I don’t see how that’d lead them to conclude that you are secretly promiscuous. It’d lead me to assume you’re just not interested in sex or romance with anyone at the moment, and that would make me think the opposite of what your friends do. I’d assume you were telling the truth about yourself since your actions support that

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