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how to stop being insecure 😕
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Anonymous 1w

Get rid of the things or people that make you feel insecure and start doing things that make you feel good. You can’t gaf what anyone else thinks. Fake it till you make it!! Give yourself grace, you got this🫶

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Anonymous 1w

Do things that build your self esteem, like accomplish small goals first then work up to bigger and bigger ones. Have faith in yourself no matter what. A good example is like hiking a mountain or like drawing. As long as it’s something that is building yourself up, nobody can take that from you.

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Anonymous 1w

Self love self acceptance. No ones perfect and no one expects that of you. Wherever your at in life is where your at and your best is good enough. Stop comparing yourself to other people they are not you you are in different places. You are the only person that you have no choice but to spend the rest of your life with so be nice to that person, get to know them better, and give your inner child time and attention to heal from the crap you refuse to deal with. Don't run from your emotions

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Anonymous 1w

say positive affirmations that are the opposite of your insecurities out loud and write it down. do this everyday. Anytime you have a thought where you feel insecure, say the opposite out loud. You gotta work to retire your thoughts about yourself

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Anonymous 1w

Get a new sex toy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Rewire*

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Sit with them and allow yourself to feel, process, break down, calm down, heal. It's not easy but you are worth it. You are worth taking the time to learn how to heal and become someone you love inside and out. AND GO TO THERAPY! Therapists are like a good pare of jeans try different ones on till you find the one that works for you and stick with it as long as you can♥️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Facts also instead of making self deprecating jokes or comments like "omg I'm so dumb" "I look like crap rn" or "omg I'm gunna kill myself" replace it with "omg aren't I the smartest person in the world" "damn I'm one sexy mf" and "wow isn't life just amazing" and you will train your subconscious to view the world and yourself differently! It totally works I have done it for years and it works!

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