It makes people uncomfortable seeing PDA, especially if it’s their sibling; it’d be less convoluted if they were your partner and not your fwb
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Anonymous#221h
Well nobody cares when they show the girls they date affection in front of us and they never care when I show my husband affection in front of them
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AnonymousOP21h
Well people do care, but I can see you’re a bit hurt by what I said. PDA can make people uncomfortable, and your brothers might just be concerned for you. And didn’t you say fwb and not husband, do you have both??
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Anonymous#221h
Yeah I have both. But dw it’s not cheating
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AnonymousOP21h
It’s cheating if you’re with another person while you’re married
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Anonymous#221h
It’s not cheating if your husband knows about it, consents to it, and is into it
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AnonymousOP21h
Why are you married to him if you want someone else?
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Anonymous#221h
Because I’m insanely in love with him and we both enjoy group sex
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AnonymousOP21h
If you love someone, why have a fwb though?
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Anonymous#221h
Because we enjoy group sex and for it to be group sex you kinda have to have at least one extra person
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AnonymousOP21h
Then why not marry your fwb too?
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Anonymous#221h
That’s not legal and also our fwb just isn’t the marrying and settling down type
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AnonymousOP21h
So you marry your husband, cheat on him with a friends with benefit, then expect your brothers to be comfortable watching all of this happen?
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Anonymous#221h
It’s not cheating if my husband is involved lol. I just didn’t except my brothers to be sooooo weird about seeing a little bit of affection between him and I
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AnonymousOP21h
You don’t think it’s weird you’re MARRIED and you’re showing open affection to ANOTHER MAN? You think your brothers should be comfortable with that?
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Anonymous#221h
No I don’t think it’s weird. I think it’s a little unorthodox yeah, and I’d understand a learning curve since my brothers just found out about it. But they didn’t have to be as weird as they were
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AnonymousOP21h
Jesus you’re deluded
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Anonymous#221h
I’m not deluded just bc you don’t understand consensual non monogamy
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AnonymousOP21h
You’re deluded for expecting your brothers to easily accept your behaviors and displays of affection to someone who you’re not even married to.