I really like my friend but I feel like I don’t know her. When we talk she only tells me surface level things about her life and while I’m spilling personal things. Idk if I should ask more targeted questions… I just wish it was more leveled field
I’m in this same exact situation. They will expose all your secrets
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Anonymous5w
Maybe she just has a really boring life
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Anonymous#25w
Nah she’s being selective
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Anonymous#15w
She has a boyfriend. Ik she tells him everything but I’m not too concerned about that
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Anonymous#25w
Usually have attachment issues or feel as they aren’t completely comfortable with you.
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AnonymousOP5w
Honestly idk how to navigate this. My bsf of 4 yrs has a bf of one that I’ve never met, know his name, or seen his face. It’s not normal and you should address it
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Anonymous#25w
I don’t think she does. I do feel like she’s being selective but I don’t know how else to make her comfortable around me
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AnonymousOP5w
as someone who's usually that friend, I just suggest asking more targeted questions. if she's not just hiding things from you, that'll get her talking