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I really like my friend but I feel like I don’t know her. When we talk she only tells me surface level things about her life and while I’m spilling personal things. Idk if I should ask more targeted questions… I just wish it was more leveled field
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Anonymous 5w

I’m in this same exact situation. They will expose all your secrets

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Anonymous 5w

Maybe she just has a really boring life

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Nah she’s being selective

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

She has a boyfriend. Ik she tells him everything but I’m not too concerned about that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Usually have attachment issues or feel as they aren’t completely comfortable with you.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Honestly idk how to navigate this. My bsf of 4 yrs has a bf of one that I’ve never met, know his name, or seen his face. It’s not normal and you should address it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I don’t think she does. I do feel like she’s being selective but I don’t know how else to make her comfortable around me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

as someone who's usually that friend, I just suggest asking more targeted questions. if she's not just hiding things from you, that'll get her talking

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