If this is the route you’re taking, logically you will have no choice but to also validate incels for saying stuff like this. Either they’re both wrong or they’re both right, because at the end of the day, they’re both pressed they’re not getting romantic attention from the opposite sex
And sometimes a girl not texting you for hours is because she’s texting someone else, but it’s silly to assume that that’s the default reason for someone not texting back. It’s just a needlessly negative, melodramatic, and entitled way of viewing interactions with the opposite sex. People are people.