If I’m breaking up with my boyf bc he’s immature, dresses like a 3rd grader, barely give me the bare minimum, and has horrible personal hygiene, what’s the nicest way to tell him that’s why I’m breaking up with him. Pls help me
I'm always afraid to reject a guy because they might turn violent. I read and hear about it all the time. 😮💨 I just avoid connection.
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Anonymous2w
Be as honest as you can without compromising your safety. If you’re still trying to be friends afterwards I would just offer candid advice so he can improve himself rather than try to spare his feelings in the moment
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Anonymous2w
Just tell him this
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Anonymous2w
Just say he’s not a great fit and you’re looking for someone with more maturity
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Anonymous2w
you don’t fit my needs anymore
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Anonymous2w
How so 3rd graders dress?
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Anonymous2w
Ok
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Anonymous#12w
That’s so rude and I would never want anyone to breakup with me like that
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Anonymous#62w
One thing he would never ever do is hit me like he is a genuinely nice and sweet man even when nobody is looking that’s why I care abt his feelings sm he dosent deserve that
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AnonymousOP2w
I dont think its rude! Especially if its as true as in your case. Dating is all about finding compatibilities and if theyre not there, call it out
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Anonymous#82w
Like bros 20 wearing tom and Jerry sweatpants with a nirvana t shirt and a band hat with checkers vans like what is the outfit it’s lowkey cringy that you don’t care what you look like in oublic
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Anonymous#32w
Oh brother
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Anonymous#62w
Oh brother nothing will compromise their safety
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AnonymousOP2w
Oh dats weird
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Anonymous#82w
Yeah like I’m embarassed to go out with you in public literally