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Confessions 9w
When my relationship started, I was the super clingy one. Now that we’re pretty far progressed, he’s significantly more clingy and I’m not really. Ngl, this flip-flip has been weird/hard. I love him but feel guilty for not showing it the way I used to
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Anonymous 9w

I feel like my girl is this way… makes me sad but I hope she loves me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

If she’s anything like me, she does! I’ve described this to my bf as feeling comfortable/stable in our relationship and that I don’t NEED to be in contact 24/7. It’s not that my love has dwindled, it’s quite the opposite, it’s just a settled feeling over our relationship rather than a fear of it disappearing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

For us it’s really more just the way we communicate It’s not as good as it used to be and we’re never on the same page Seems like everything I do is just a step behind where she needed me to be and it’s frustrating her to the point I feel like she’s just gonna leave one day I just hope she’s like you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

That sounds like a conversation to bring up, which is totally scary, I get it. It sounds like she isn’t the greatest at telling you what she wants/needs and maybe you’re not picking up on cues she thinks are obvious. Neither of you are wrong, but a talk about how you communicate and how clear you guys need to be on expectations and needs might just help

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