Aww I bet you are such a beautiful young lady it’s okay that you don’t dress like Everyone Else that doesn’t make you unattractive

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Same when I try to be girly I feel like a pig in lipstick

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You go back to jeans and a shirt because that’s who you really are, and there’s nothing wrong with that! Your jealousy sounds socially imposed. You don’t need to be super girly to be feminine, and you don’t need to be feminine to be a woman 🫶

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Honestly, I fell in love with my ex when she would wear nothing but pj pants and tshirts , and don’t get me wrong I loved when she would dress up but I knew she was at her most comfortable in graphic tshirts and jeans ! So No complains from me! lol

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You have to feel comfortable in yourself first and that takes a while

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I think you just need to find your style! Go to a clothing store and keep trying on clothes you like until you find one that fits you well and adds to an aesthetic that you’d like to build on, and keep going

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I was like this for years too, but I started mixing everything and it helped a bunch. Like wearing sweats but wearing makeup. Concealer, light blush, and lipgloss. Doing my hair but leaving my face bare, etc

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Dress how you want to! Don’t need to copy someone else’s style. And if you need help with makeup tips I am self taught and can help too :)

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It makes me feel like a pig in lipstick, especially cause I spent a lot of my life being more masculine so when they’re days I wanna actually look like a girl I can’t 🤕

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