I broke with my boyfriend of almost three years yesterday morning. Not a bad guy, a good person. But he lacked drive, motivation, and was extremely self centered. Not in a mean way, but in a way that consistently made me feel insecure in the relationship, and extremely lonely. He just didn’t grow up, while I kept working harder and harder. He has no plans for after college, he’s said he’s just going to take a gap year to travel and take a break. I’m in medical school.
(A year ahead of him). It’s not like he had to do the same difficult steps and do the same thing as I did. I just wanted him to do something, anything. He’s never even held a job. He’s barely passing his classes. I didn’t trust him anymore. He says he doesn’t want to be a stay at home dad. So I cut it off.