I learn my dating techniques from my cats. Echo (F,white) will always shove her self up against Kyros(M, orange) to get groomed and cuddle. And he does it for 30 seconds. Then either bites her or leaves her cause she’s annoying.
So I leave men alone now
How often does Echo groom Kyros?
Echo just wants the grooming but gives nothing in return.
Maybe if Echo reciprocated the grooming Kyros would be more tolerant of her.