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"men dont like it when you do xyz" "dress like this" "stop swearing" "change how you speak" "dont laugh so loud" this type of advice is so fucking annoying. like why do you want me to be a whole different person
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Anonymous 16h

They want you to be boring and let him shine like the sun :(

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Anonymous 14h

Especially cuz like, men like everything

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Anonymous 16h

If boys got this same kind of advice do u think this would be a better world

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Anonymous 5h

You assume they have common sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

Tuh 💔

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 16h

i think people should be themselves. its important to work on yourself! but its stupid to tell someone to change their whole personality to impress the opposite sex ❤️ this goes for men AND women

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

Idk, I think a lot of women are (sorta) well socialized because of these common tropes. If boys were taught to care more about how they show up in the world I think the world would be better cuz men would be better. A lot of dudes are left to their own devices and thus end up under developed, whereas girls are given these strict regimens on how to be. Double edged sword imo

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 16h

i see wym. a good balance is important bro

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