Was it someone who knew your past that you considered a friend?

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Wdym “if I don’t count it”? Bc thats… probably your answer. Like that may be whats throwing em off & prompting them to try to understand what ur talking about. Consent is not a subjective thing ofc, but that makes it sound almost like ur applying a personal or different standard. Nobody can make you talk about it and you have every right not to, but if you DO, anyone who cares enough (whether about your experience or body count, depending on the tone of the convo) is going to want to understand

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Someone who is adding your traumatic experience to your body count is not worth your time. Anyone fixated on your body count is not worth your time! Them trying to argue with you over your body count is a sign they are not worth your time!! Block this person, they do not need access to you at all! It amazes me how disrespectful and inconsiderate people can be when you open up about shit like this. If they cannot respect your way of viewing that experience they will not respect you.

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