I get the same way. Genuinely I just have to be comfortable with the person or else I get embarrassed. Try music or candles maybe. A blanket over my legs usually helps too. A have a Spotify playlist if you’d like it
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Anonymous1w
Are you a guy or girl
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Anonymous1w
Have you tried BDSM?👀 Worked for a friend.
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Anonymous1w
Tmi but do u have any sexual trauma? do u trust ur partner enough to orgasm with them?
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Anonymous#11w
Girl. My bf gets really insecure and frustrated when he can’t make me cum even tho I tell him it’s not his fault
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AnonymousOP1w
Does he go down on you
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Anonymous#21w
Yes
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Anonymous#31w
Ehhh no thanks, not into that sort of scene
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AnonymousOP1w
And that doesn’t get you off? Does he just give up too soon?
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Anonymous#21w
I don’t know how to explain it, I like it and it feels good but idk when I’m with another person it’s like a sneeze that won’t come. And it’s not just him, it was like that with ex’s too
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AnonymousOP1w
So no guy has ever gotten you off?
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Anonymous#21w
Nope
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AnonymousOP1w
Oh wooooow I’m so sorry!
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AnonymousOP1w
Do u have enough trust and communication with them. Off topic from BDSM just want to help😊
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Anonymous#11w
Bruh what do you think
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Anonymous#31w
Bruh omg
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AnonymousOP1w
I am a man si it’s different but recently a women was trying her hardest to make me cum but I didn’t love her so it didn’t work
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Anonymous#41w
No sexual trauma thankfully. I love my bf, he’s the person I’m closest to and trust the most but I guess I am kind of naturally a closed off person
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AnonymousOP1w
Have you tried like things other than just penetration? My ex told me she has only ever came from things other than that
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AnonymousOP1w
I miss my ex she’s in a bad situation and I’m gonna go try one last time to get her out of it on Monday i hope it works she was so kind
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Anonymous#51w
Damn. Just trying to help
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Anonymous#31w
No I’m sorry that’s actually funny as fuck I WAS NOT expecting to read that tonight
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Anonymous#31w
I get it though a women chocked me with my belt once will I couldn’t breath