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I can’t orgasm with a partner and it’s really ruining my relationship 🥲🔫
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Anonymous 5d

I get the same way. Genuinely I just have to be comfortable with the person or else I get embarrassed. Try music or candles maybe. A blanket over my legs usually helps too. A have a Spotify playlist if you’d like it

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Anonymous 1w

Are you a guy or girl

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Anonymous 1w

Have you tried BDSM?👀 Worked for a friend.

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Anonymous 1w

Tmi but do u have any sexual trauma? do u trust ur partner enough to orgasm with them?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Girl. My bf gets really insecure and frustrated when he can’t make me cum even tho I tell him it’s not his fault

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Does he go down on you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Ehhh no thanks, not into that sort of scene

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

And that doesn’t get you off? Does he just give up too soon?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I don’t know how to explain it, I like it and it feels good but idk when I’m with another person it’s like a sneeze that won’t come. And it’s not just him, it was like that with ex’s too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

So no guy has ever gotten you off?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Nope

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Oh wooooow I’m so sorry!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Do u have enough trust and communication with them. Off topic from BDSM just want to help😊

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Bruh what do you think

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Bruh omg

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I am a man si it’s different but recently a women was trying her hardest to make me cum but I didn’t love her so it didn’t work

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

No sexual trauma thankfully. I love my bf, he’s the person I’m closest to and trust the most but I guess I am kind of naturally a closed off person

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Have you tried like things other than just penetration? My ex told me she has only ever came from things other than that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I miss my ex she’s in a bad situation and I’m gonna go try one last time to get her out of it on Monday i hope it works she was so kind

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Damn. Just trying to help

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

No I’m sorry that’s actually funny as fuck I WAS NOT expecting to read that tonight

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I get it though a women chocked me with my belt once will I couldn’t breath

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

I hope it works out and everybody ends up safe :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Okie cool, glad 😌

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Thank you so much honestly

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