It’s okay to not like advances

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I mean not exactly major league stuff but still it feels better and calmer in the long run to assume people are acting in good faith

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Maybe he has a touch of the ‘tism? I do and I’ve had both those thoughts a lot of times, I just never say them out loud cause I figured it’d come off weird 😅 I love art and sometimes specific aspects of the human body just exude beauty and it catches ur eye yknow? I play with my man’s hands when we cuddle just because I enjoy looking at them. That’s how I would view that kind of comment but I know a few friends who would be creeped out by it too. Your confliction makes sense

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