My dad FINALLY let me see pictures from his childhood and for the first time at 20 yrs old I got to see my dad as a little kid. I cannot describe the happiness I felt seeing my dad with so much joy as a child compared to his usual stoic self nowadays.
The older you get the more stress you build up, school, career, job, pay, health, to some relationships, children, improving always. Things like that bring us down bc we are expected to be good but we always strive to be the best