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I just want a monogamous relationship with a girl that cares about me
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Anonymous 2w

Nah to much to ask nowadays

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Anonymous 2w

Then look for the type of person that wants that 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

No it isn’t.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

No it is. Cause women don’t like men

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Women like men just fine. Most of them just want emotionally stable men that can communicate feelings meanwhile men think feelings make them weak. Also too many claim to uphold some arbitrary standard of strength and when they fail to meet their own standards blame everyone around them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Yet women don’t communicate feelings well. Also a majority of women see men as expendable and useless. Also yes it is because there are countless accounts of the second a man opens up about his feelings the woman sees him differently

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Most women I know tend to be better communicators than the men I know. Tbf I have been told by both sexes that I’m too honest and blunt but overall women tend to have higher EQ. And as for men opening up about their feelings I can only speak for myself but began to fall back in love with an ex when he cried and I held him as he apologized for his mistakes that led to a breakup. We still weren’t (and aren’t) meant for each other but feelings are human and communication without passive aggression

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

*is hot as hell. Hottest things a man can do: directness without malice with words, follow through with actions, be open with his feelings without using them to undermine other’s, and have passion for interests and life beyond the bedroom.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Cool I do hot things yet single af

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Perhaps that has to do with the amount of rage you’re exhibiting. You might not be aware of the energy you’re putting out but “women hate men” is a clear vibe that will have most women running the other way. At least everyone that isn’t pre-disposed to get into a toxic as hell relationship.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Well that and I’m ugly and fat and looks are important

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Also have no rage just speaking truth

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Those are your words. That’s the energy you’re putting out. Whether you are or aren’t is irrelevant. You might attract someone naive enough to believe they can make you see yourself as they do (because everyone is someone’s type) but if you’re attracted to them you’ll never believe them, just punish them because you’ll convince yourself they’re lying, or if you’re not attracted to them you’ll make them feel like dirt anyway because you get to be the attractive one for once.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Actually I wouldn’t cause I don’t believe people are lying until proven otherwise, I don’t punish women because one woman emotionally abused me, and it’s because of a lot of factors but looks is a big one cause they do matter

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

It is rage. I’ve met people like you. I’ve been like you, when I was younger though I don’t think it was this bad. I got past it because I dated someone more toxic than me. They didn’t know the rage they carried because they didn’t want to face themselves. Rage is safe, protective. If you strip it away all that’s left is vulnerability. And vulnerability is terrifying. It means you have to actually meet yourself and there’s a risk you won’t like that person. It’s worth it but it’s also scary.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

It’s not rage it’s called a shield after being vulnerable too many times and being cautious about who I be vulnerable with

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Looks are so dependent on the individual. One person’s “hot as hell” is another’s “meh”. If you feel you don’t like how you look, do something about it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

While yes that is true there is also societal hotness which can be objective. Also I am I’m going to get plastic surgery and starving myself

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Your second thing you said is “women don’t like men.” Thats some strong denial you’re rocking to say you aren’t angry at the world and especially women. Btw starving yourself is just going to crash your metabolism. You won’t actually be loosing weight you’ll just pack anything lost back on immediately when you eat again, you might even gain weight because starvation mode is powerful, what will happen is your metabolism will be permanently slowed down.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

As for plastic surgery, if you start any type of body modification to feel attractive with your mental state I can pretty much guarantee you’ll never feel attractive and you’ll become addicted. And no there isn’t a one size fits all societal “hotness” scores of women obsessed over a literal noseless bright red man because he had swagger (Ghoul in Fallout). The entire monster/alien erotica industries is proof women don’t give a shit about one specific look type.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

The “he-man” sculpted look impresses one demographic: men. “Big boy” thirst trap successes on TikTok says thicc guys are having just as much success as women and not all of them are muscled. Some are. But confidence? Confidence is always sexy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Then why is the majority of posts you see on social media from a majority of women is that men are useless, expendable, and that it would better if we were gone? I would eat enough to not be starving obviously. I know how metabolism works. I can also do any kind of changes to my body I want. There literally is levels and changes to what is considered attractive in society. There are trends that happen. What was sexy in 1960s is different than in 2025.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Yeah I heard a lot of girls talking about how hot that guy is. Literally never heard anything like that or saw any posts that even mention that character. Why do women like male actors like Ryan Reynolds, Henry cavill, and Chris Evans? Because they are attractive men.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

You do know your algorithm is set to what you choose to watch right? What you choose to watch on social media will shape your reality. Personally I rarely if ever see those posts because they’re not what I want to see.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Have heard multiple women like the he man sculpted so that’s false. Yes confidence is good but there’s a fine line between confidence and arrogance. And an attractive man being confident can be different than an ugly guys confident. It depends on if the girl is attracted to the guy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Yes there is but that doesn’t change that those posts still exist

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

My man I think you’re spending way too much time in the incel echo chamber, the world outside is vast and wonderful but if you stay there you’re just gonna keep getting poisoned and keep getting told you’re not good enough. It takes a lot of vulnerability to do so but I promise you everything afterwards will be worth it. You can do it, I believe in you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

It’s not false. As I said everyone has their own “types” and everyone on this planet fits someone’s physical type, with and without trying. Whether you like people that like you is a whole different matter. I could justify that with my own type in humans but I’ll just leave it at I got massively turned on by a humanoid spider character in a book last week. 10/10 would’ve ended up life-mated to an actual spider-centar given the chance and it was down to the character.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Human attraction is complex, varied, and can’t be reduced down to “people only like this look”. If you want to continue to convince yourself you need to change every physical aspect of yourself no one can stop you but I think it would be a much better choice to spend that money on some therapy and work on your insecurities.

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