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I have to breakup with my boyfriend and tell him I’m cheating with his best friend. I’m honestly really worried he’ll hurt himself when I do. Would it be insane to text his parents first so they know to watch out for him?
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Anonymous 20h

Just don’t tell him why…

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Anonymous 18h

You know don’t typically judge, but instead of cheating on him why didn’t you just break up with him before cheating on him with his best friend. Typically in a situation like this you were already attracted to him. But yeah I feel for the homie, he doesn’t deserve to have the 2 people the closest to him completely betray his trust.

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Anonymous 21h

How good is the friends cock? Do you have to tell him at all? Get him to break up with you and then you can do a guilt free switch up

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

He’ll never breakup with me on his own. Me and the friend just wanna be together so I have to breakup with him.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

He’ll find out tho once me and his friend are a couple

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

You can force a guy to dump you. It just takes work

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

Or instead be a grown up and do the right thing by admitting it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

We actually did breakup. The first time me and his friend hooked up was while me and my bf were broken up. Then we got back together. Then we broke up again and me and the friend hooked up again. Then we got back together. The cycle happened a few more times before we eventually started cheating together

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

So again why get back together with your bf if you kept hooking up with the best friend in between it? Would’ve been a way less awkward situation than it is now man. But you gotta tell him even if it’s awkward he’s the only victim here

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

Because every time we broke up my parents threatened to disown me and all my friends said I was making things for the friend group awkward and begged me to get back and he’d threaten to hurt himself if I didn’t get back together with him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

That’s understandable, although 2 wrongs don’t make a right id report it to someone that can help. But also he’s probably not going to hurt himself. Had an ex try to do that threat towards me so I called the suicide hotline and after telling her that she insulted me and called me a moron. But she left me alone 🤷‍♂️ overall this a very complicated situation. But much luck to you at the end of it. Wasn’t trying to tell you how to live your life. But the truth will make this a lot better in the end

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

Yeah I know two wrongs don’t make a right. I’m just ready for all of this shit to be over and I know he deserves the truth. That’s why we’re telling him soon

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

The best thing to do even if it’s hard, but you’ll find that you did the right thing even if it was wrong🫡 I hope he can move on and heal as well

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

Literally just keep the couple hidden for like 3 months.

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