Confessions on Yik Yak | You’d think being ugly would save you from being sexually harassed when in reality it makes it easier for him to harass me cuz “it’s a joke” and “I OBVIOUSLY don’t have pervy intentions if I’m doing it to HER. Come on guys! It’s funny cuz she’s ugly!”

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Confessions 13w

You’d think being ugly would save you from being sexually harassed when in reality it makes it easier for him to harass me cuz “it’s a joke” and “I OBVIOUSLY don’t have pervy intentions if I’m doing it to HER. Come on guys! It’s funny cuz she’s ugly!”

Anonymous 13w

It’s kind of the same thing as when a man is “gay” with another man as a joke. The reason it’s funny is because it’s very unlikely to happen, so they feel comfortable making jokes about being gay with their buddies. It’s the same at work. He flirts with me, makes VERY gross jokes, and GRINDS on me when I’m bending over to pick something up or clean something. And he feels comfortable doing it to me because I’m ugly.

Anonymous

OP 13w

If I was attractive, people would see it as SA, but because I’m ugly, people think it’s hilarious. I’m so… done.

Anonymous

OP 13w

Just talk to HR ffs, and go to the gym

-1

Anonymous

#2 13w

I actually do, VERY often. Men act like being fat or skinny is the ONLY thing that contributes to beauty standards.

Anonymous

OP 13w

Ignore anon #1 they are just trying get on your nerves, but I completely agree with you on all the points you made. You also are NOT ugly I may not know what you look like, but I can guarantee you that you aren't ugly!!

Anonymous 13w

No tf it’s not. I can name 5 ugly dudes of the top of my head who are JACKED. Doesn’t mean I’m comfortable sexually harassing them.

Anonymous

#3 13w

Ur kind, thank you ☺️. But I’m chopped <3

Anonymous

OP 13w

Show me what u look like I can prove it (if ur comfortable enough with that ofc) if ur chopped then consider me chopped too <3

Anonymous

#3 13w

This is my only good pic tbh

Anonymous

OP 13w

Girl you are stunning wym chopped hello?? I love your eyes and smile!!

Anonymous

#3 13w

I’m not smiling in the image but thank you. I live in a VERY colorist area where the darker you are the uglier you are. I guess I was wired to believe I was ugly because I’m too dark.

Anonymous

OP 13w

I get that. And im sorry you've been around that type of vibe that made you feel like you were ugly; honestly it shouldn't matter the color of your skin in the first place, so hearing what you've been through is made me just want to give you the biggest hug ever

Anonymous

#3 13w

I gave my friend the LONGEST hug today. I didn’t want to let her go, and we just sat there for like 3 minutes straight just hugging. I BEGGED her to come sleep over at my house because I wanted to snuggle with someone but she promised her dad she would spend time with him on Father’s Day 😭