Anonymous #3 6w

Honestly that sounds like a lot of effort to exploit someone but I also understand the dangers

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Anonymous #3 6w

They can, they can also take a regular pic of you just at the office or something and make you naked to

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Anonymous #5 6w

What it’s some fun we both like

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Anonymous #4 6w

I’ll take that risk

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Anonymous OP 6w

Nah I mean for leaving the face outta it

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Anonymous #3 6w

yeah… my ex did something like this to me. but it was a mirror pic i had taken (fully clothed) and he had AI make it nude bc i wasn’t sending him stuff at the time😀

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Babes this wasn’t a production just my handy work lmao

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I’m not male centered I just thought this would be fun don’t come after me lmao also he did nothing because my birthday ain’t here yet

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Anonymous #9 6w

Girl I’m so sorry boo I’m glad he’s an ex

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Anonymous #4 6w

Sorry I’m confused

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I guess 😭

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i promise u it’s not that deep - the least male centered straight woman you’ll ever meet

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i guess everyones different lol… im with you. if i did all of that for a guy and all i got was a holy 😭

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Anonymous #13 6w

But it wasn’t an all that it was three pictures of me goofing around in lingerie

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Anonymous #5 6w

they’re booing you but you’re right

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Anonymous OP 6w

now you’re downplaying yourself to justify his menial reaction… let’s have a little more self respect babes

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Anonymous #14 6w

I have plenty self respect I was having fucking fun it really isn’t that deep

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Anonymous OP 6w

I wanted to get a reaction out of him

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Anonymous OP 6w

being flattered over a “holy” when you went though the effort of choosing or buying a lingerie set,posing, propping up your phone, and setting the timer on the camera is very indicative of your self esteem

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Anonymous #14 6w

I already had all my lingerie I spent no money on this

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Anonymous OP 6w

It’s a gift also wasn’t that hard to pose or take pictures

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Anonymous OP 6w

It’s supposed to incite a holy that’s what I was going for

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Does it matter? Ur lame as hell, she can’t do something special for him without her saying he did something for her first? It’s a reason a lot of yall are single and miserable

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Anonymous #14 6w

Why are we acting like taking a selfie is some hard labor job and why are you so upset over someone having fun - another extremely non male centered female

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Anonymous #16 6w

Ok don’t get me wrong sometimes angles can be a pain in the fucking ass but over all not hard

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girl ur right these girls just have no morals or know the concept of self worth

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Anonymous #17 6w

She has no Self worth? Morals? Cuz she sent a picture to her significant other? 😂😂😂😂 fucking losers I swear

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Anonymous OP 6w

sending any kind of sexy pics to a guy is all that imo lol, and id hope for a little more appreciation from him. but everyone is different

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Anonymous #15 6w

theyre just talking lmao. this is giving hes not that into her

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Anonymous #13 6w

Now you are insulting my relationship?

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Anonymous OP 6w

you said talking. thats not a relationship jfc. if you’re in a relationship than say that

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Anonymous #13 6w

It is a relationship we are seeing eachother it ain’t official

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Anonymous #13 6w

“the man im talking to” youre not even this mans girlfriend, you sent him private pics, and youre excited over a “holy” why are you deadass suprised that people are questioning your self worth 😭

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Anonymous OP 6w

it aint official lmao so its not a relationship 😭😭😭 situationship at best. now its just giving denial wtf

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Anonymous #13 6w

I think you are acting like a fucking Bible thumper

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Anonymous OP 6w

I can do whatever the fuck I want with my body

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Anonymous OP 6w

i dont even believe in god. this isnt coming from a “he should respect you more wait till marriage dont send nudes” mindset… but like he didnt have more words to say? he couldnt hype you up? show you how it made him feel? but whatever floats your boat just dont make this something it isnt

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Anonymous OP 6w

no one said you couldnt 😭 im judging you for being happy with his lack of a repsonse not for sending sexy oics

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Anonymous #13 6w

What’s he supposed to say? BOOYAH!? 😂😂, OMGGGG AWOOOOGA WOOOF WOOF?? 😂😂😂

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Anonymous #13 6w

You don’t know him and also sometimes a smaller response is better then something overly dramatic

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Anonymous #15 6w

Hey my sisters ex commented on his new girlfriends post saying MOMMY WOOF WOOF WOOF MEOW on a public insta page so he could have done that

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Anonymous OP 6w

Ur right ur right

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Anonymous #13 6w

exactly like he gets nudes from a bunch of random girls and all he said to urs was “holy” and ur excited over that … sad and low self esteem . it’s one thing to “have fun” and send nudes but it’s another to come brag about it on a public forum where ppl are allowed to share their opinion and then being mad when ppl share their opinion 💀

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Anonymous #17 6w

He doesn’t talk to other girls bitch

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Anonymous OP 6w

Sorry I ain’t going to be nice anymore

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Anonymous OP 6w

I’m not going to be nice anymore

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They just mad they ain’t the ones getting dick🥱

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Anonymous OP 6w

😂😂 ur low self esteem is showing . having to defend urself against any little comment and starting to talk ab nazis and random shit like ur tryna say anything to be more intelligent and valuable . if u were u wouldn’t have to try so hard to prove it

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Anonymous #17 6w

Please do us all a favor and shut up, you literally don’t know her to form any sort of opinion about her, like it’s actually getting weird… god forbid she answers a question and has a conversation with someone

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Anonymous #19 6w

if people don’t want public opinions don’t make public posts 😂

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Anonymous #17 6w

It doesn’t give you a platform to be a bitch who peeked in high school either😂

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Anonymous #15 6w

SHE is single lmao he doesn’t want her and doesn’t even react to her throwing herself at him like a cheap desperate girl

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Anonymous #8 6w

Who hurt you?

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Anonymous #15 6w

Male centered. Being single not performing for a man to call me hot

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Anonymous #19 6w

Who hurt you? You’re the fake feminist

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Anonymous #8 6w

What are you talking about? I’m sorry I’m not going to bash a girl for having fun because I don’t know her man or how he usually acts or how they interact… my bf sends emojis is that a terrible response to because it’s not a 12 page essay on how hot he found it?

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Anonymous #19 6w

an emoji is a terrible response and if ur just like her why even try to argue 💀 idk why u mentioned “peaking in high school” when that has literally nothing to do with having self esteem and valuing ur body higher than a one word meaningless reply. it’s not ab the reply it’s about the fact that postin “i feel successful” because of that is so low value and shows how her value depends on men. i encourage u and her to look in the mirror until u love urself and dont need a man to make u feel that

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Anonymous #17 6w

I mentioned peaking in high school because yall were acting like a bunch of mean girls coming at her about something that wasn’t even that big of a deal. But ig it’s in the same manner in which you brought up her having a normal conversation about her interests, after someone asked what she wanted for her birthday, as if it were some ploy😗 I never said I didn’t value my body?? I’ve actually learned to love it more with the help of how he loves me as I am😗

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Anonymous #19 6w

most of the time we’re already on the phone when I send them so yah the emojis are enough for a text reply. He already writes me love poems and I don’t need one about my body to know how valued I am by him🤷🏾‍♀️ We need to get rid of the narrative of you always needing to love yourself before you love someone else because you don’t have to go through that alone🤷🏾‍♀️

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Anonymous #19 6w

Thank you 19 you’re a G fr

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Anonymous OP 6w

Of course girlie🫶🏾

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Anonymous #23 6w

I’d rather choke on grass lmaoo

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Anonymous #23 6w

ew what r u like 50

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Anonymous #23 6w

You know the person you’re messaging on OF when you buy those is a middle age man right

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Anonymous #19 6w

we are all so beautiful and gorgeous and a light in our own ways i just want more women to spend more time focusing on that and realizing that then focusing on how a man makes her feel like i love myself so much i stare at myself in the mirror for hours and pictures of myself for hours if i sent a nude to a man and all he said was a one word reply i’m not even going to bother w that cus what i say to myself is so much more fulfilling than that like yk what i mean

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Anonymous #19 6w

and sure u can love someone but if your cup is empty another person will never permanently fill it and you will always be searching for reassurance .

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Anonymous #17 6w

If you want to to be encouraging you have to come with encouraging energy and none of y’all’s responses had that in there. Degrading someone or making them feel backed into a corner just to prove a point is not being a girls girl. It’s just being mean and trying to cover your ass in my opinion🥱 I love that you love looking at yourself for hours, truly. I come a cross pics of myself where I’m like “you ate that💅🏾” and admire it a little, but I don’t have that desire to stare at them for hours…

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Anonymous #19 6w

…nor do I care and you can’t expect everyone too. Not everyone is at where you’re at and that’s okay because it works for them and if it doesn’t they’ll just continue to grow until they find what does. We don’t get to dictate if someone loves themselves or not because we don’t know them or what that even looks like for them. Just like more could’ve been said at a different time but she didn’t share that information because it’s not our business 🫶🏾

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Anonymous #19 6w

Whatever the case is, your response was uncalled for and I think you should apologize for it if you really meant what you said, whether she accepts it or not.

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Anonymous #19 6w

I do also think I deserve an apology because you were just being cruel and definitely not getting your point across

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Anonymous #17 6w

Also I know I’m hot shit and I do look at myself in the mirror but not for hours. Girl if I was looking for male reassurance and was male centered I would definitely not be going for this man. I have plenty of men who fawn over me, not to sound overly self righteous. It gets to the point where it’s fucking annoying. This man says what he wants to say when he wants to say it. They aren’t empty words. Really he isn’t one of too many words lmfao. He also said my pictures were cute and he thanked me

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Anonymous OP 6w

Also in all honesty. I can’t help who I feel emotionally attached to! I’ve dated many a man I had no feelings for this year but him I actually really care about and like.

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And no I did not show him my body because I thought it would save or create a relationship! I did it for a special treat especially since I can’t be there right now to hold him/be with him in person as I am at my family’s lake house for two weeks before I come home for my next internship

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Anonymous OP 6w

Families*

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Anonymous OP 6w

Omg I love that for you and I hope things continue to go well for you bookie

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Anonymous #19 6w

Thank you girlie I hope things go fucking amazing for you too!!!!!! 🫶🫶🫶

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Anonymous OP 6w

Thank you!!!🥹🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

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Anonymous #19 6w

Ofc boo! Also I hit some pretty good shots today on the golf course so let’s hope the luck continues for the both of us 😋

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Anonymous OP 6w

That sounds so fun!!😩 it’s not the same but now I’m in the mood for mini golf or something 😭 I hope you continue to knock it out of the park🙂‍↕️🤍

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Anonymous #19 6w

Girl I’ve never played mini golf!! Except for second grade for a birthday party ugh but it always looks so fun!! Thank you girlie

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Anonymous OP 6w

Have you ever played ski ball 😏? I haven’t done that for forever but I miss it like crazy

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Anonymous OP 6w

I guess it’s called skee actually

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Anonymous OP 6w

I think I’ve played mini golf a few times but that was years ago😭omg if your man likes golf and there’s one in your city(whenever yall see each other again ofc) that would lowkey be a cute date👀🤭

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Anonymous #19 6w

Skee ball is both so fun and so frustrating cuz what do you mean my aim is ass when I’m actually trying😭

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Anonymous #19 6w

Unfortunately he does dislike golf but if I ever introduce him to my parents/comes to the lake house after meeting parents he will in fact be playing golf as my dad LOVES golf and has won many a championship. He’d rather be fishing, camping, or other.

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Anonymous #19 6w

It is especially in an arcade!! I love arcades

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Anonymous OP 6w

He better get ready to start practicing 😂 and that is so cool of your dad😍

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Anonymous #19 6w

I miss going to arcades😭 imma have to go the next time I travel, I don’t think there’s any where I currently live😭

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Anonymous #24 6w

it’s not OF - I don’t need that! I have a solid rotation! iMessage. & #12 I’m not 50 I’m a young bachelor who’s a doctor

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Anonymous #23 6w

I like how you thought saying you have a rotation made your offer sound any better

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