Anonymous #1 1d

Wdym?

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Anonymous #2 1d

Literally not

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Anonymous #3 1d

It was not born out of infidelity

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Anonymous OP 1d

Both yourself and your choice of partner. The general life choices that lead to this post

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Anonymous #1 1d

Nah, you just don’t get it

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Anonymous OP 1d

he’s married. that’s inherently infidelity even if they were separated. you immediately are looking to cheat on him

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Anonymous OP 1d

You asked for advice, I gave you the response any reasonably civilized person would have

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Anonymous #1 1d

Yeah fair enough, but you don’t really get the whole situation so the advice isn’t relevant. But that’s okay

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Anonymous #3 1d

I’m not cheating on him

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Anonymous OP 1d

whatever helps you sleep at night

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Anonymous OP 1d

There is no context that would change my answer. How tf are you <35 and involved with someone who is getting a divorce

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Anonymous #1 1d

Him and I are both 25 but I don’t get how age even matters. I’m involved with someone getting a divorce because I met a guy and caught feelings for him when he happened to be getting a divorce. Pretty simple

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Anonymous OP 1d

you for some reason when you posted your business and got comments in your business 🤯🤯🤯🤯

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Anonymous #2 1d

Yeah you’re right. I’m completely mind blown rn. Spot on bud.

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Anonymous OP 1d

My point is if you are 25 and already getting a divorce I question your character and judgement to end up with such a messed up life. If you are 25 and want to pursue a relationship with a person like that, I judge your standards and character as well

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Anonymous #1 1d

Hence why my advice was to reflect on what led you here and reevaluate some life choices

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Anonymous #1 1d

Everyone’s path in life is different, some people aren’t as lucky as others. Unfortunately he was manipulated by a woman he thought he could trust and it resulted in an abusive marriage. I’m pursing him because I don’t think his abuse defines him. But to each their own, if that’s not something you can understand then it’s not my place to force you to understand it

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Anonymous OP 1d

At some point people (the guy in this situation) have to take responsibility for the situations they put themselves in. I personally think it’s the barest of bare minimum standards to not even consider being with the type of person you’re describing him to be

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Anonymous #1 1d

I feel like if he was a woman who was a victim you wouldn’t say he put himself in the situation. But double standards I guess, people always ignore abuse when it’s the man unfortunately.

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Anonymous OP 1d

As a man I would not for a second consider romantically entertaining a girl with a past remotely similar to that

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Anonymous #1 1d

Okay, that’s your prerogative and that’s chill. I just don’t think people’s abuse defines them

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