I totally get this but when I say I spelled everything out for him I mean it DEADASS. Ik it’s bad but I was going through messages with my ex and it actually helped me bc literally every other text conversation was me fucking telling him exactly what he did wrong and how it made me feel and exactly what he could do to fix it. But we still went in circles the whole relationship and I had to end it. I also hate that he made me this way bc he literally turned me into a nagging bitch