Confessions on Yik Yak | You don’t need any reason to not want kids. You need a damn good reason to have them. For some reason our society has that backwards. Kids are a HUGE responsibility. You should only have them if you’re 110% sure you want them and are responsible enough

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You don’t need any reason to not want kids. You need a damn good reason to have them. For some reason our society has that backwards. Kids are a HUGE responsibility. You should only have them if you’re 110% sure you want them and are responsible enough

Anonymous 3w

you’re right man. i don’t feel any strong desire to have a kid so i just won’t have one. i’m literally planning a career in education and teaching kids brings me joy but i still have no desire to HAVE one for myself

Anonymous 3w

i agree completely, i worked in childcare for two years (same job), and that’s when i learned that kids were NOT for me and that’s okay. also i can’t even begin to imagine how much more expensive it will be to raise a kid or two in 10 or 20 years. fuck it’s even expensive now. god speed to all of the mom’s out there😭

Anonymous 3w

Poor ppl have the most kids and then complain they can’t take care of them. If you can’t match the bedroom to the number of kids. Don’t have kids no way you in a 1 bedroom with 6 kids. Lying saying they’re comfy. No tf they’re not if you can’t afford food, child care, or basic necessities don’t have kids. This is rocket science and having siblings is enough to not want kids. Hell seeing my aunt raise her son and he’s bad asf is enough for me to not want kids.

Anonymous 3w

Thank you. The last guy I talked to asked if I wanted kids. I said this world is too terrible right now to be brining new life in. He didn’t even say it to me, but he told one of my friends that was stupid and selfish reason 😍

Anonymous 3w

The ability to bear children is a blessing.

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Anonymous

#3 3w

And neglecting children isn’t. You need an extremely good reason to justify having kids. Kids are just young people. Making people is a huge responsibility

Anonymous

OP 3w

A lot of parentss don’t neglect their children tho. Kids are just young people who grow up to be adults who do amazing things.

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Anonymous

#3 3w

I didn’t say all parents neglect their children. But having kids just because it’s the norm IS why kids are abused. I’m not sure why you’re arguing against being 110% sure you’re ready for kids

Anonymous

#3 3w

yeah and so is the ability to choose whether or not to have kids.

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Anonymous

#2 3w

Ok would you rather have people have abortions by fucking hand then or

Anonymous

#4 3w

bro what… i said that the ability to choose whether or not to have kids is a good thing