
Depends on what the urgency is about. Your lack of planning doesnāt constitute urgency for me. Just because your anxiety is over kill and you forgot shit due last week doesnāt mean I need to put my life on hold to help you. Show urgency in your own life and maybe others will reciprocate.
Negative u fingerturd. How u gon say show urgency in ur own life and people will reciprocate.. how are u showing urgency in ur OWN life if u cant even be on time for app or events? Someone showing lack of urgency in getting ready to attend one or the other says a lot.. Be on time, be present, and be respectful. Js cause you do that does not guarantee others will for you but it shows youre a good person with good character. Would you respect someone who is constantly late to your events?
i feel like a birthday is different than work or class, especially when itās one for your major. like yes not everyone has work, school, etc. but if that is the only thing you have planned for that day then be on time-ish. like donāt always take your sweet little time for everything