Anonymous #1 16h

I said without a plan If your bills being paid is all that comforts you then, like I said, you’re not very bright😭 You need to have a credit card, a will, and your husband has to be putting money every month into your own separate bank account and retirement fund Not to mention you have to have some kind of skill/degree/work experience If you have this locked than enjoy the stay at home life mommy🤗 feel me?

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Anonymous OP 16h

Na I don’t judge people with that lifestyle. A lot of people want to be taking care of and it satisfies both parties. I don’t do it because I’m pretty independent but a lot of people will. Who am I to judge they are a lot happier than most people.

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Anonymous #1 16h

You just missed my point 😭 Of course I’m happy for them But what happens if, god forbid, the husband gets sick? Dies? Loses his job? What Im saying is have a PLAN

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Anonymous OP 15h

I understand your point but even if they don’t have a plan I don’t judge them. I know someone in the exact situation and she got a fat ass check from divorce. She’s rich in life.

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Anonymous #1 15h

Not everyone gets a check though Its like me saying seatbelts save lives and you go “but I knew someone who got into an accident without a seatbelt on and he’s alive!” And you dont have to judge but advise them

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