Anonymous #4 11w

Can someone answer my question instead of downvoting?

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Anonymous #4 11w

It means like not cis, so that can be trans in a mtf or ftm way or nonbinary or other ways of presenting gender

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Anonymous #8 11w

I literally knew a girl that pretended to be lesbian to piss off her mom 💀 faking queerness is not far fetched at all especially if the person is a known rage baiter

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Anonymous #1 11w

Rage bait and Moral superiority complex

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Anonymous OP 11w

wtf

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Anonymous #3 11w

Not trying to attack fr it’s a joke with a doakes picture

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Anonymous OP 11w

It’s not helping

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Anonymous #5 11w

Ik it 😂

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Anonymous #4 11w

Ppl hate ppl for not knowing shit and it pmo 💀 you’re chill and #9 is right

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Anonymous #4 11w

Yeah ppl hate on ppl who don’t know things. But the only way ur gonna find out is by asking questions. It’s like how many scientific discoveries start with a hypothesis. So it’s good u ask us instead of assuming

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Anonymous OP 11w

But like I just wanted to fit in bc all my friends are either gay or bi. Mind I’ve still never kissed anyone I just felt like an outcast 😔

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Anonymous #9 11w

Ah, I had a “phase” I guess where I felt that way. I still consider myself cis though, since the only things that bug me are biological things that either aren’t changeable or worth changing.

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Anonymous #6 11w

Ppl do shit that gets them killed all the time this doesn’t make sense queen

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Anonymous #5 11w

I’ve have one friend that’s straight. But the thing is we accept him for who he is. We don’t care. We love him ( as a friend) for who he is. He can share his ex stories and we can share ours. Our friend group is a team not a game of catching up with the kardiashians and we genuinely try our best to make everyone feel comfy

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Anonymous #5 11w

But I also get where u are coming from

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Anonymous #5 11w

You were still growing up it’s ok to experiment and learn yourself it’s just a funny scenario

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Anonymous OP 11w

Look ppl can get disowned by their family u think anyone wants that willingly by choice

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Anonymous #4 11w

Honestly gender is a social construct and labels are more for other people than anything that changes who you are, be who you want to be and call yourself what you want to be called whether that’s cis or otherwise

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Anonymous OP 11w

Some places will kill u for being queer u think ppl choose that

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Anonymous #6 11w

Ppl willingly do stuff that gets them killed all the time lol history is an idiot plot

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Anonymous OP 11w

Nobody chooses to be disowned or killed for being queer” ≠ “nobody chooses to do anything risky

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Anonymous #6 11w

Neither are you just trying to insist no one would ever fake queerness 💀

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Anonymous OP 11w

I still feel like I’m growing up lol I don’t really fit in anywhere

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Anonymous #4 11w

Also super relatable I also felt that way when I was younger and now the only thing that bugs me doesn’t bug me enough to bother changing. You’re my twin fr

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Anonymous #5 11w

Well if you learn and grow all your life you’ll always discover new things abt yourself. I feel the same way esp when I compare myself to others

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Anonymous OP 11w

I’m trying I just can’t find people who actually want to hang out with me. In high school I was always left out of hangouts

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Anonymous OP 11w

what specific situation are you talking about??

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Anonymous OP 11w

you keep wiffle-waffling between “it’s a joke” and “it’s really happening,” which is it dawg 💀 do you mean people lying on YikYak that they’re trans because that’s the only situation that might make sense 😭

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Anonymous OP 11w

Nah, I feel like it’s more common with teens still learning about themselves. I knew a trans person that transitioned late middle school, and they are still trans. Every other trans person I met in high school stopped being trans when it was no longer giving them the attention they wanted. I hope people are still using “transness” as adults when other people are risking their lives just being who they are

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Anonymous #16 11w

look at whos laughing with u, op

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Anonymous #4 11w

Genderqueer as a label is like how non-binary people identified before the term “non-binary” was coined in the mainstream. Really it’s any queering of your gender, but mostly in a way that doesn’t fit the predefined gender binary! It’s got some rich and interesting history behind it so I deffo recommend looking it up and reading about it sometime

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Anonymous #4 11w

It’s definitely more common among ppl still learning abt themselves and it can take ppl throughout their 20s to figure it out

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Anonymous #16 11w

Chill ppl that understand this is more abt the messiness of finding identity? Yeah we’re having a nice time

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Anonymous OP 11w

that is literally the opposite of the post’s message 💀

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Anonymous #14 11w

It’s a joke not a lie lol ppl do fake queerness man go outside and meet them they aren’t that bad

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Anonymous OP 11w

…by “faking” do you mean they’re just questioning their identity and aren’t sure if they’re trans or not? because that’s not what “faking” is 😭

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Anonymous #14 11w

No I’m talking abt how ppl sometimes pretend to be something they aren’t when they aren’t fully comfortable with themselves

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Anonymous #14 11w

It’s literally not 💀

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Anonymous OP 11w

can you explain more, I’m genuinely confused

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Anonymous OP 11w

chill people saying things like “of course they are, its trendy to be insufferable”? you made a post about how trans people are faking their identities. thats transphobia

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Anonymous #15 11w

Assigned gender queer by comments 😂 lol I’m afm

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Anonymous #16 11w

I’ll downvote them when I find that

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Anonymous #16 11w

Their comment was already all the way at the bottom cause they’re a minority under my chill post

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Anonymous #14 11w

When ppl are uncomfortable with themselves sometimes they lie abt who they are. Sometimes they can even get complexes abt it. But figuring out who you are is a messy process. You never really know who’s lying abt themselves until they reveal it somehow. The post pokes fun at that messiness by using a picture of a detective from the show Dexter. In the show, Dexter is a murderer that works with the detective. The detective suspects that Dexter is lying but has no evidence

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Anonymous OP 11w

you, posting a chill joke about how some genderqueer ppl are fakers, in a non-queer yak community with mostly cishet people

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Anonymous OP 11w

here lemme try a chill joke. i just know youre not really queer, but i cant prove it

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Anonymous #16 11w

I have no idea what the demographics are of this group but seems preety queer in this comment section. The only lgbt board is hyper specific to lesbians so it didn’t make more sense to post it there

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Anonymous OP 11w

no???? theres tons of lgbt boards

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Anonymous OP 11w

no one feels morally superior about being nonbinary 😭 if you’re capable of being ragebaited by a genderqueer person simply existing then that’s pretty clearly a “you” problem

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Anonymous OP 11w

I get what you mean, but “faking” isnt the word you’re looking for 😭 your post reads like you’re saying a lot of cis people are malicious and lying about being trans for clout/attention. that’s common transphobic rhetoric, and it’s why people responded like they did. you’re talking about people who are questioning if they’re trans but end up realizing they were insecure instead of dysphoric. maybe they’re faking for themselves & others, but that wasn’t communicated whatsoever in the post

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Anonymous #13 11w

Nobody ever accepts my “there are more women than there are twinks” explanation

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It’s still stupid imo. Like why do ppl need validation to get other ppl to like them. Just be yourself:)

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Just bc ppl do it doesn’t mean they should

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Anonymous OP 11w

Your competence is that of a rock. You keep making jokes abt serious topics. I’m not saying NO ONE.

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Anonymous #25 11w

Being queer is amazing!

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Anonymous #6 11w

i love being queer!!!

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Yess! ^^^

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Anonymous #26 11w

Same 😭

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I never said most people are faking lmao

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Anonymous #19 11w

being bi isn’t the same as being trans

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Anonymous #14 11w

All under the lgbtq umbrella

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Anonymous #6 11w

Agreed! Wouldn’t have it any other way

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Anonymous OP 11w

Yeah people are going to fake being a persecuted group and open themselves up to that hate just for fun. That sounds great. Gonna last a real long time i bet.

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Anonymous #19 11w

that doesn’t mean it isn’t completely different to fake a sexuality rather than fake being trans…

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Anonymous #1 11w

i would say that some people REALLY want to be special. i would say tho that they aren't saying their gender queer, they're saying they're bisexual

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Anonymous #30 11w

Everybody hates bisexuals tho lol

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Anonymous #30 11w

Also i lowkey think if more “straight” people were honest with themselves they’d realize they’re bi

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Anonymous #28 11w

no real, so many men like men and are too weird abt it to realize, but like the amount of ppl i've met that said they were bi and then in the same sentence say "i'd never date a person of the same sex" is insane.

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Anonymous #30 11w

Is it though? Sexual attraction and romantic inclination do not have to be the same. But if people were aware that you were sleeping with both gender while openly only dating heterosexually, it’s not like people would make exceptions and say “oh they’re not really bi because they would never date their own gender”

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Anonymous #1 11w

i specifically used the word "date" because i knew if i said "be romantic with" somebody would write a paragraph like this. i'm being so fr there are so many ppl that i know that say they are bi and have zero attention to the same sex. romantic or sexual. and the fact that i have to be this specific in my wording is a whole other conversation about the forced intellectualism that the internet has.

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