Anonymous #3 4w

Can absolutely agree, There’s a time and a place and a very open and sore wound. I’m not too sure if or when you should tell her or if ever… however if you tell her now it’s not going to add salt to the wound but infact make the cut deeper leaving a harsh scar… I’d say tell a family member or a close friend you trust about the situation and navigate what you should do then. If you say now it will add so many emotions, however I guess you don’t want him for your mother to say he was a loving,

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Anonymous hobb.gobblefied 4w

And loyal husband at his funeral. Ya know. Or allow your mother to grieve and then maybe a year later or some time (it is sneaky) say that you was going through his phone and say you noticed something. As what you don’t want it to feel like would be, your mum asks why you were hiding it from her and how long you knew. And then there’s that distrust. Asking the internet is good but naturally you’ll have opposing opinions or diffeeent ways to go about it. One thing I do recommend is talk to a,

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Anonymous hobb.gobblefied 4w

Family member about it or friend, they know you best. And they would have an understanding about your mother too. I’m so sorry that you had to go through this and I hope it goes ok for what the situation is :) Your fellow goofy Gooning Goober :)

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