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i went out to eat with my coworker and he said that it’s mandatory for a man to pay. in a way i disagree. only because he used the word mandatory. yes, im mostly in relationships where the guy pays but its not mandatory. sometimes i wanna do nice things.
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Anonymous 22h

my bf & I take turns paying for dates. He used to think the same way until I convinced him I should treat him too!

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Anonymous 22h

If you’re going out to eat with a coworker i feel like splitting the bill should be the default assumption

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Anonymous 20h

That’s how we were trained 🤷

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

nope. he paid for everything. bowling lane, shoe rentals, dinner, and drinks. i offered but he said no. he also got me breakfast this morning. dunno 🤷‍♀️ just a gentleman i suppose

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

I hope he doesn’t have too many expectations

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

why?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

Bc sometimes men pay for everything expecting sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

he’s not a loser so that’s not what this is

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